I thought I would start them off with a subject most men would agree is SOOO important to them: oral sex.
TIP 1: Make eye contact with him. Men are greedy creatures and like lots of attention. Also, they like to see if you are enjoying it too. So, if you put a little sexy in your eyes he will be like putty in your hands.
TIP 2: Hands ON! The article says that the average man is 5 to 6 inches. I personally tend to disagree with this. I think that the average man is closer to 3 to 5. Even knowing this, the average mouth is only 2 to 3 inches deep. So, to give the illusion of 'taking him all the way' use your hands where your mouth leaves off. Add a little twisting motion and he will think he's in heaven! Lubrication and gloves also add a different sensation! Don't be afraid to play with his testicles. Gentle fondling or even gentle tugging, or any touch on them really, while you're down there will put him in heaven!
TIP 3: Ask for assistance. Women are not born knowing how much suction to apply down yonder. It's okay to ask him what he wants. To give you a better idea, and to keep it sexy, ask him to suck on you finger with the same force he'd like to have on his member!
TIP 4: Clean and Clear. Some women find the flavor of their partner too strong. Or that the fuzz is too much for them. Make this a sexy start to your intercourse. Ask him to shave or trim it up for you. Maybe even suggest that you'd like to do it (that's a turn on for some guys). Then take a sexy shower or bath together so that everything is nice and clean. This will make your time in the land down and under much more pleasing and palatable.
TIP 5: The Tongue. Some women forget to use their tongue! Make swirling motions with it to keep him interested. The under side of your tongue is very soft and smooth; use it on the top of this erection, just behind the head, or on the underside in that little V area.
TIP 6: Ice Cream Anyone? You get the idea without me saying too much here. Lick him up and down much the same way you would an ice cream cone!
TIP 7: Rhythm. Find a good rhythm that doesn't wear out your jaw to much. The article has a very good idea for rhythm that I will be trying myself! It will also help him to stay sensitive versus just a constant one rhythm bob.
TIP 8: Blow Job. Get him nice and wet by licking and then very gently blow on the moist area. This is a whole new experience for him!
TIP 9: Teeth. Now some men like that GENTLE scraping sensation of your teeth on their shaft. But for those that don't, here's what you do. First lick the front of you teeth so that they are moist. Then turn you head and run the FRONT of your teeth along the shaft. Its all about sensation!
TIP 10: Love Bites. Pretend his penis an ear of corn and nibble your way up and down. Use your lips and teeth very gently.
TIP 11: Ice Ice Baby. Take a drink of something cold or pop a small ice cube in your mouth and go to work. It also helps to keep your mouth moist whilst you work!
TIP 12: Mints. I've never tried this but, again, I will be! Pop a Cert or Mint Lifesaver in. The menthol (that's what makes your mouth tingle) will do the same for him!
TIP 13: Upside down. THIS IS MY FAVORITE TRICK AND I WILL TRY IT AND REPORT BACK TO YOU!! Lay on you back on the couch or bed with your head hanging off the side. Have him stand in front of you and do the moving. This gives you an idea of how he likes it, and if you are worried about him thrusting to deep you can use you hands on his hips to keep it him from getting too into it!
TIP 14: Oh Balls! Take your tongue and start on the outside of one and make a U shape that ends in the seam in the middle. Then go back down the same seam and up the other side in another U. The pattern is a rounded W shape. He will like this, I promise!
You can read the full article here: http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/advice/oral-sex-tips
Never fear ladies, I have another article planned so that they (the men) can read about how to make it good for you coming next week!
If you have a subject you want me to research and discuss just email me! sspassions@yahoo.com
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