Tuesday, April 12, 2011

As Promised

A Guide to Giving a Women Oral Pleasures

THE BASIC RULES:



  1. Never bite a women's va-jay-jay


  2. Use your tongue and fingers to maximize stimulation


  3. Have and exit strategy in case you panic


THE OTHER STUFF:


Clean and Clear: If you are worried about smell or hair getting in your way, take a sexy shower and mention to her that you really like it trimmed or hairless. Women are pretty good at getting the point.


Eat Your Ice Cream Slowly: Don't be over aggressive when you start. Its a really sensitive area and you don't need to be so firm when you start. Pretend its an ice cream, lick it up and down and gently part it with your tongue and do the same thing inside.


Explore: You can do things with your tongue that you can't with your Johnson. Make love to her with your tongue. Explore the inside of her vagina. And vary the sensations she will feel by using a firm hard tongue or a soft wide tongue. And remember to always to back to the clitoris. A fun fact is that most women have to have some degree of clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm.


Do the Hoover: Most men don't think about sucking when they go down on a woman. The truth is that it does the same thing for a woman that is does for a man. Sucking very gently (or a little harder if that's how she likes it) on the clitoris while making a swirling or flicking with your tongue is going to drive her wild. Use your fingers to make love to her WHILE you do the Hoover and she will almost always have the big O. (No not Oprah the other big O)


Finger on the G-Spot: If you find you need help getting your lady love to the finish line, use your finger and gently rub her G-Spot. The position changes for each woman. (And may indeed change after she has a baby. FYI). But most generally its located about 2 1/2 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the front side (the belly button side not the back bone side). You'll know it when you feel it as it has a roughish-bumpy texture.


Hmmmm: Yes humming while your down there adds a vibration that will probably have her climbing the walls. Pick a low note for max vibrations


Relax: This seems silly to say, but the more tense you are the more tense she will be, and if she is tense she will never orgasm. So relax, breathe, and have fun with it!


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