FMF!

I do love me some boxer-briefs!!!

Happy Friday ya'll!!!

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Product of the week!

This weeks product of the week is a Power Bullet. Its on clearance for $6.00...seriously. These are usually about $23!

Now, since last weeks product didn't get very long I will also keep it this week too!

And, finally, I will be postponing my order until Friday. So, if you didn't get a chance to order you still can!

ORDERS

Hey everyone, I am putting an order in first thing tomorrow morning, please let me know if you want anything!

Product of the Week and Fantasy Man Friday!

I will feature a product each week that will be a product of the week. These are clearance items and I make absolutely nothing on them, but they are such a good deal I have to share them with you! From now on I will feature them on Mondays, but for this week we will feature it on Friday. So, today's Feature of the Week is: Passion Lip and Body Gloss $4.00- this stuff is lots of fun! It tingles on wherever you put it!! The flavors vary, but its a fantastic deal!!

And now Fantasy Man Friday!!!!

How sexy is he?!?!? Yum...I'd like to use some of that gloss on him!!! Okay then...Have a fantastic Friday everyone!!! (found here)

We're Back!

Heeelllloooo ladies!! I have missed ya'll!

Well it has been a CRAZY summer! We bought a house, renovated, moved in, went on vacation, and generally just kind of went nucking futs! But, I am back, and ready to get on with the Passion products!

So, to let everyone know what's going on with the Passion Parties- I am now a real consultant!! I can book parties and sell products. As a matter of fact, I am having an open book party right now! So, if you'd like anything you can visit the website, pick your products and order them through me by sending me a message, text, or calling me. OR you can call, text, or email me your address and I will happily send you the product books! OR (I know you are probably thinking how can there be more?!?!?) you can book your own private party with all your friends!

If you choose to book a private party there are hostess rewards and a free gift, for you, the hostess! My hostess gift for the month of October (for any party occurring in the month of October) is BODY ICING!! It comes in a 3 pack of strawberry, chocolate, and vanilla.

The next post tomorrow will be the current discounted on special items- I am soooo excited to be back on line and ready to rock!

Love to you all! Have a passionate day!

Taboo #2

Okay I am just going to put this out there. Today's taboo is about anal sex. WAIT!! Stay with me here I have a surprising statistic for you....it is estimated that 1 in 4 heterosexual couples has or has tried anal. Yes, seriously.

Now why talk about this taboo? Because I can tell you that most men have at least entertained the thought of giving (and perhaps even receiving) anal with their partner. Its a tighter entrance that causes greater friction and therefore more pleasure for them. But I can tell you this, it creates different sensations for a woman too and can be equally pleasurable.

There are right ways and wrong ways to go about it.

First (and this is VERY important) is to remember that this particular orifice is NOT self lubricating. A good water soluble lubricant is highly recommend.

Next, if the thought of something that big going into your exit makes you nervous and tense then it will probably be best for you to start small. Try a finger to start with then graduate to personal toys (they make a wide variety), and then when you're ready you can attempt the real thing. Its better all around if you are relaxed and into the moment. Speaking from the women's point of view, its easiest if you are close to climaxing. And, this one may sound crazy, but if you are pregnant it may make you more relaxed due to the chemical called Relaxin that your body makes naturally when its expecting.

Third, to the person doing the giving remember to go SLOW for your partner until they are ready to go on, sometimes it takes a minute to adjust to the size.

Now then, something else to think about is that it can be pleasurable for a guy as well. As in, something in their rear. The extra pressure that's created puts more pressure on the prostate gland and will give them a very intense and satisfying orgasm.

Just remember to keep the line of communication open, and if your partner thinks they can handle something and it turns out they can't, don't get upset or mad, just try again later! Engaging in anal with your partner takes a lot of trust and openness, and ultimately can be one of the most intense experience you can have together.

Article found here.

Fantasy man Friday!

By special request, Vin Diesel!!

Is he one of the sexiest men alive...yes I really do think so!

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WAWW

Happy Wednesday everyone. We've had some plus size women, some clothed women, and some older women. Today, just a sexy model type woman.

The link is under the picture.

Intamacy

I know a good number of people who struggle with intimacy issues. At the end of the day they just want a nice quiet evening to themselves, but they can't have that because their partner comes home and wants attention. So you suck it up and put up with it.

Most men (sorry guys this is the truth here) think that intimacy = sex. It does NOT!

I know that, in my own personal life, I give all the emotion and affection I have to my kids all day. Children, like an over-demanding boss, can sap the emotion out of you. When my husband gets home in the evening sometimes its hard for me to want to be intimate with him. And, sometimes its hard for him too, because all he wants to do is sit and relax. He's also one of those intimacy = sex kind of guys too.

Intimacy for a women is talking and cuddling. Its holding hand or playing with her hair. You would be amazed at what an unexpected hug can do to improve her mood.

And sometimes, intimacy is doing the dishes for her, or helping pick up after dinner. These are small romantic gestures that will reaffirm your affection for her.

Ladies, romantic intimacy for a man is different. Sometimes it can mean those small touches and looks. But mostly men are physical creatures; their idea of romance is if you initiate intercourse. But, I promise you that doing some small gestures will make him far more receptive to your kind of intimacy. Slip a love note in his lunchbox, send him a text that tells him how much you appreciated him taking out the trash last night. Even the roughest toughest man will smile and tuck away those notes and save the texts. Before we were married I wrote my honey a "have a good day at work" note. Six years later, I am cleaning our room and find a small box under the dresser I never noticed before. I look inside, and find a collection of every anniversary card and love note I have ever written him, including the first note from before we were married.

The point to this? Intimacy is important for a healthy relationship and sex life. Without intimacy your sex life won't be as good, and without a good sex life your relationship will start to have problems.

I am going to start a series of 5 posts this week (excluding this one) about the 5 things that make a solid foundation for a solid relationship. Feel free to add things as we go!

Fantasy Man Friday

I cannot express how flippin' happy I am that today is Friday. This has been the longest week on record!
Happy Friday everyone, and I hope y'all have an amazing weekend!

You can see the link in the caption at the bottom of the picture!

Taboo Topic #1

I am going to be going through some topics in the next few weeks that would normally be considered "taboo" or uncomfortable to talk about.

Taboo topic #1: Masturbation

I know some of you are hastily clicking the close button right now, but for the rest of you hang with me! (No pun intended)

Some people are from the school of thought that its not good for you, and some are from the school that says in moderation its okay! As for me, I am from the second school.

Masturbation, in both men and WOMEN, is healthy and natural. I come from a family that doing 'that' is no acceptable. Period. But, as I got older I have found many things out. Masturbation is healthy (much more so than say having multiple partners) and its a great release for frustration and stress. Its also healthy for your future sex life, or your current. We all know how aggravating it can be to not orgasm when you know your close or that you should. Here's the thing ladies (and some guys too) if you masturbate, by yourself, then you can take the time to find out what you need to get you there. I had a teacher in 11th grade (so serious) that put it like this, "Masturbation is natural and healthy. Think about it like this if you don't know what you like, how can you expect your partner to know what you like?" A profound statement that made an impact on me.

We are pleasure driven creatures, motivated by instinct. Several other species of animals masturbate. Why? Because, hey it feels good, and also because it ensures that when its time to actually reproduce offspring you know how to do it. Some people think that we should evolved past that point, but truthfully we haven't. When you're hungry you eat, when you're tired you sleep, and when you need sexual release you take matters into you own hands!

This comes with a caution though, please remember that there's a time and place for everything. And frequent masturbation in adults (not so much for teenagers) could be a sign of something more serious.

If you have a taboo topic you'd like me to talk about you can send me an anonymous comment here or send one to my e-mail. I promise I will use the ut-most discretion and names, addresses, and comments will never be posted for others to see.

MIA and WAWW

I appologise for not posting for the past couple of days. I have been MIA because of the never ending cold. I finally went to the doctor last night, and it turns out I have bronchitis and a sinus infection and an ear infection. So, now with inhaler, codine cough syrup, and antibiotics in hand I will do my best to get back on the horse.

She's 50 years old y'all! 50!! I sure hope I look like that at 50- heck, I'd like to look like that now!

Happy Hump Day everyone!

Fantasy Man Friday

Woo-Hoo! We made it to Friday! Was it just me or did this week seem super long?

Now, ladies (and guys if that's how you roll!) finding pictures of women at various ages and sizes who are beautiful is easy; finding men of all ages and sizes...not so much! So, today we have some more eye candy as I continue my search for good looking men of all ages shapes and sizes. And, hey, I am totally open to nominations or suggestions!
I think a double dose today, because its Friday and it WAS a really loooooong week!
Hellloooo handsome! Picture found here!

I would towel him off any day!! Picture found here.

Sorry Everyone!

I am sorry that there's no real post today- with my husband out of town until the end of the week and two sick kids, my sleep has been deprived. So am taking today off.

However, I know a good chunk of women out there that read romance novels to keep themselves interested, and some just enjoy the read. I am a huge fan of Gena Showalter and her whole Lords of the Underworld series...and pretty much all of her other books too. AND I have to say (since I just finished this book recently) Kresley Cole's Dreams of a Dark Warrior is pretty darn amazing...and hotttt!!! The latter is a new author to me, and I will most definitely be finding the rest of the series!

Happy Thursday y'all!

WaWW

Welcome to What a Woman Wednesday!

Y'all today's woman is A-Freaking-Mazing!!! This gorgeous lady is Pauley Perrette. Some of you may recognize her as the forensic scientist from NCIS. I think I may have a girl crush on her!

On top of being one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen, she has degrees in Sociology and Psychology, a successful acting career, she's a published writer and musician, AND a civil rights advocate! AND she's 40 years old this year....seriously!!!

Picture found here.

Tighten-Hold-Release

Yesterday I mentioned doing Kegel exercises, and I very quickly mentioned how to do them. Today I will be going into more detail about how and why keeping your pubococcygeus (pc) muscles tight and strong is a good and necessary thing. Also, other things that can be added in addition to doing Kegels.

First off: Why is it important to exercise your pc muscles? These muscles (also referred to as your abdominal floor muscles) are responsible for more than orgasm (though they are fundamental to have an orgasm, and the stronger the pc muscles the better the orgasm). They also control your urine flow. If you leak a little urine when you cough, sneeze, or laugh it most likely means that your pc muscles are weak. Often, while you are pregnant, after you have a baby, or as you age these muscles become weakened and you begin to have trouble with incontinence. Doing Kegel exercises can help re-firm these muscles so you can be in control again.

Next: How to do Kegels and how often. To do a Kegel simply tighten the muscles in your vagina, the same way you would if you were peeing and had to stop mid-stream. Then hold for 5 seconds, and then relax them slowly. That's it! The best thing is that you can do this ANYWHERE at anytime. No one will know you're doing them (unless of course you get a funny look on your face). Most 'experts' say to do 5 to 10 sets of tighten-hold-release, 2 to 3 times a day when you first start.

Lastly: What else can we do to keep our pc muscles tight? In addition to Kegel exercises, you can use Ben Wa balls. Passion Parties has their own brand of these special balls call Pleasure Pearls ( you can buy them for $21). Ben Wa balls usually come in sets of 2 and vary in size to fit your comfort level. They are lightly weighted metallic balls that are inserted in the vagina. Ben Wa balls can also be used during intercourse. I suggest you read more on them for sex here. But as far as exercise goes, in order to keep them in you must tighten your pc muscles (like doing a continuous Kegel) for as long as you leave them in. Its a bit like a power walker using ankle weights. But, if you find that regular Kegels aren't giving you the desired results I highly recommend Ben Wa balls.

Article found here.

It Does a Body Good...

Ten reasons why having sex is good for you:

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1. It lowers your stress levels and your blood pressure. Studies have shown that couples who regularly have intercourse have a better reaction to stressful situations than those who don't. The same studies also found that those same couples had lower diastolic blood pressure.

2. It boosts your immune system. Having sex once or twice a week actually increases immunogobulin A, which is a key factor in your immune system. So, having sex (1 to 2 times per week) fights colds and other infections naturally!

3. It burns calories. One 30 minute bedroom session with your partner can burn 85+ calories! It's a terrific fun work out that you can do together.

4. It helps your heart. Scientists have found that having sex 1 to 2 times a weeks (especially for men) actually improves the condition of their heart. And, it can reduce the risk of a fatal heart attack in men by 50%.

5. It boosts your self esteem. Researchers asked what were the reasons people had sex. One of the most common answers was because it made them (the participant) feel good about themselves. The study also found that those who had sex regularly had better self esteem in general.

6. It improves intimacy. Having sex releases the hormone oxytocin. Oxytocin gives us that "feel good" feeling and helps us to trust and bond with our partner.

7. Its a natural pain reliever. As the oxytocin releases your endorphins (pain blockers) rise as well. Thus helping to relieve any pain we might be having.

8. It decreases the risk of prostate cancer. Men in their 20's, who had frequent (5+) ejaculations each week reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer by at least a third.

9. It strengthens your PC muscles. Doing Kegels while having intercourse will do two things. First, it will help to strengthen your PC muscles. ( no, not your personal computer muscles, your pelvic floor muscles) These are the muscles responsible for controlling your flow of urine. I will talk more about Kegels tomorrow. The second thing it will do is increase the pleasure for you and your partner. To do a Kegel simply tighten the muscles in your vagina like you are stopping your pee mid stream.

10. It will help you sleep. The oxytocin released during intercourse is also responsible for helping you sleep. But, a healthy heart, a good weight and lower stress are also beneficial for good sleep, and they are ALL benefits of having sex!

Its a win win folks! So, go on, and get into bed!!

You can read the full article here.

Fantasy Man Friday

Welcome to Friday everyone!

Today's Fantasy Man some of you may recognize as the lead male actor for the TV series Bones. Following our 'beauty come in all forms' trend, I thought I would post a man who (believe it or not) is 40 something years old.

Now, y'all I'm 26, so I don't go for those older types, but for this man I think I would make an exception!

ENJOY!!

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10 Tips For Better Sex

I apologize for today's post. I am not feeling very good ( for the past few days), and so today is going to be short and sweet. I urge you to read the full article (here) because its very good and informative. So, onward to the tips!

TIP 1: Blindfold Your Partner. It increases the other senses.

TIP 2: Give Instructions. No one is born knowing this stuff.

TIP 3: Give A Massage. Relaxes and makes your senses keener.

TIP 4: Roll Play. Keeps things fun and interesting.

TIP 5: Share Your Fantasies. This is highly erotic, and your partner will want to make them come true for you.

TIP 6: Play a Sexy Game. Strip poker, love dice, etc...

TIP 7: Talk Dirty. Super sexy for both parties. Start neutral if you don't really know what to say.

TIP 8: New Positions. Try new positions, and if you lack imagination, buy a Kama Sutra book.

TIP 9: Toys. For him and her. The article mentions C-rings which are a good his and hers option, as vibrators can be added to either side (if that's the kind you buy). It also helps to keep the erections longer.

TIP 10: Location, Location. Change your location. Doing it somewhere semi-public is a huge turn on for some, but if you are worried about getting caught then do it in a new location in your home. Some place other than the usual.

Keep it fun and sexy and relaxed and you will have a great experience!

What a Woman Wednesday

Happy Hump Day Y'all!

Today's woman is on the curvy side, but she is still amazingly beautiful. Beauty comes in many forms, next week we will look at an older, but still gorgeous woman!

Enjoy!

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